friendship
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A Denim Eulogy
Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to mourn the loss of a dear friend. Finding friendship is special, but experiencing true friendship is rare. I feel thankful to have experienced both. A true friend is someone who is there for you on your good days and bad days. Someone that makes you feel like… Continue reading
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I Hope 30 Loves You as Much as I Do
In the fall of my sophomore year of high school, I showed up to the annual softball tryouts as a “returner.” Having made the team as a freshman, my spot was already reserved, so I was just there to volunteer my time, meet prospective players, and, along with my teammates, be the butt of the… Continue reading
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O-Hi It’s My Trauma
Midway through February I was sitting at my desk, looking up at my Wanderlust calendar, wanting to go somewhere. The vaccine had just started circulating and I wanted to put something on the calendar that might help expedite our wait for the new normal. Three months later, my sister, my best friend Allison, and I… Continue reading
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It Had Been a While
I’ve been to quite a few weddings. I’ve also been in quite a few weddings. And while they are all unique in their own wonderful ways, they are also very similar—running through the same routines, the same schedule of events and the same (at least in my case) excited yet patient wait at your table… Continue reading
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31 Good Things that Happened in March
Well, hello there. It seems things are a bit different since the last time I made one of these posts. But that hasn’t stopped the world from showing unmatched kindness, compassion and love to those who need it most. This was actually one of the easiest “good things” posts to put together, which makes me… Continue reading
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Submitting My Friendship Resume
To Whom it May Concern, Seeing as we are in a strange time, one that encourages not only kindness and politeness, but undeniable kinship and unity, I have come to the conclusion that we should be friends—from afar obviously, because, well, YOU KNOW. That being said, I’ve attached my resume for your review. If the… Continue reading
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You Keep Following Your Dreams & I’ll Keep Following Mine
In August of 2016, me, my sister, and my best friend Allison (except I spell it Alleeson because of a whole Kimberlee double-e solidarity thing) went to dinner at Islands. As we sat laboring over which hamburger to choose from the menu, Alleeson put her hands on the table and took a deep breath. “I… Continue reading
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Sometimes Friendship is Gummy Bears
About 3-4 years ago I was going through a period of my life when I genuinely believed I didn’t have very many (see: enough) friends. I considered myself a master of acquaintances, succeeding in keeping most people at arm’s length to ensure that a) I wouldn’t get hurt and b) I wouldn’t disappoint anyone. Some… Continue reading
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How Your Kids Awakened the Future Mom in Me
I’m not a parent, but I used to play one in the morning. Five days a week I would drive over to a family friend’s house to pick up their 10-year-old twins and take them to school. I didn’t do any of the hard work. When I showed up the kids were awake and dressed… Continue reading